Category Archives: Law of Attraction

What A Day For A Daydream!

My favorite teachers on the Law of Attraction are Esther Hicks/Abraham.  I like them because their teachings are simple, consistent and humorous.  Whether I’m reading their books, watching their videos or listening to their CD’s, I always come away with the same basic understanding~ the essential key to attracting what we want is to generate the feeling of having it.  Unless we experience the feeling (vibration), we can’t attract the thing, because we aren’t a vibrational match.  We must let ourselves IMAGINE the way we will FEEL when we actually have the fill-in-the-blank (happiness, success, money, relationship, health, home, peace…)

As a general rule, most people don’t do this, because we were never told how important it is.  I certainly can’t remember my parents or teachers telling me to spend time visualizing my goals.  Worse than that, I can remember being told to “stop daydreaming!”  So now, I’m making up for lost time and I’d like to encourage you to do the same~ Start Daydreaming!

It’s really fun and it’s really easy and I can promise you it’s not a waste of your time.  Close your eyes and, for a few minutes, think about whatever it is that you’re wanting.  Instead of thinking about how you don’t have it, pretend you do have it.  Pretend you’re watching a movie where you are the Star AND the Director.  Let yourself really see it, to the point that you can really FEEL it.  The more often you do it, the more fun you’ll have with it, and the more fun you have with it, the more often you’ll do it, and the more often you do it, the more you’ll be generating the all-important feelings that you’ll be feeling when you have whatever it is you want to have. (Is that last sentence too long?)  In a nutshell, you have to feel it before you can hold it.

I know many of you visualize on a regular basis and I’d love to hear your thoughts and ideas on this.  For those who don’t, wouldn’t today be a perfect day to start daydreaming?  I believe it would! What do you believe?

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Meditation Doesn’t Work! Up Until Now…

In the last post we discussed how our Immune System is affected by our mental attitude and touched on the fact that research shows the practice of meditation improves our immune response.  He (the Ph.D. who gave the seminar AND did the research) said that people with weakened Immune Systems showed a vast improvement when they meditated on a regular basis.

This is very good news…if you meditate.  My experience tells me that most people don’t, which I find completely understandable, because MEDITATION IS BORING!  At least that’s what I used to think.

I first took a meditation class when I was 19. I learned the technique, practiced it every day for several months and…nothin!  Through the years I’d tried several other forms of meditation; everything from staring at a candle flame, to repeating a secret mantra, to listening to a specially encrypted CD.  Each time I tried, I became more and more convinced that the people who say “meditation is a wonderful thing” must be lying.  How can sitting quietly with eyes closed for a set period of time be all that wonderful?  Why not just take a nap and be done with it?!

Well all that changed just a few months ago.  Now, I can honestly say that meditation is one of (if not THE) best things I do everyday and has profoundly changed my life.  You might be thinking “isn’t that a little too enthusiastic? Profoundly changed your life?!  Puh-lease!”  To which I would respond “I’m NOT kidding!”   Keep in mind, I thought people who claimed benefits from meditation were lying, just a few months ago and I had almost given up.

Knowing I am a huge Abraham-Hicks fan, may daughter bought me their newest book and CD called “Getting Into the Vortex~Guided Meditation”.
Fifteen minutes a day of breathing (which I was doing anyway) while listening to beautiful music and powerful words.  The greatest part was I felt an incredible difference after the very first listening!  Now that’s what I’m talkin’ about!  So what change do I notice?  I feel happier, healthier, calmer, more confident, more relaxed, more focused, not to mention prettier, richer, smarter, funnier and kinder. I’m serious!

You’ll be hearing more about this in the coming weeks, because it’s helped me so much I’m putting together a 6 week workshop using this material.  I almost feel a sense of obligation to share this powerful, life-changing tool.  What’s most exciting is I’ve shared it with some friends and clients and they are experiencing the exact same results.  It’s similar to taking a great drug, in that you feel better instantly and the effects last for 24 hours, when it’s time for your next dose.  But unlike a drug, there are absolutely no unwanted side effects and you don’t need a doctor’s prescription!

If you’re thinking “yeah, she’s probably getting huge kick-backs from Abraham for talking this up!”, you would be correct.  But the kick-backs come not from Abraham-Hicks, but from The Universe.  I’ve been studying The Law of Attraction for many years, and nothing even comes close to this in terms of appreciable results.

I’d love to hear your experience with meditation, either with this CD or other forms that work for you.  And if you’re one of those people who’ve tried meditation and been underwhelmed in the past, I strongly encourage you to pick up this little gem and give it a go.  I promise (and I hardly ever promise) you will be glad you did!

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Let’s Celebrate What Didn’t Happen

In previous posts, we discussed the importance of feeling good so we can vibrate at a good frequency and therefore attract good things into our lives.  We’ve also talked about how when we are grateful, our vibration just naturally increases.

As I was walking downstairs this morning, I almost tripped and fell.  Actually, I did trip, but I didn’t fall. After I got done saying “WHOA!”, I realized that if I had fallen, I could have really been hurt.  Falling down the steps at 6AM could have really messed up my day.

It got me thinking…… what else didn’t happen that I can feel grateful for?  Continue reading

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How Can We Feel Good When Things Are Bad?

In our last post we discussed the importance of feeling good so we can attract the good we want.  By far, the most common question I hear from people is:  How the heck am I supposed to feel good when I’m surrounded by, and therefore constantly reminded of my current reality, which makes me feel bad?

Let me start by acknowledging the obvious~ it sounds crazy!  The idea of feeling rich when your bank account is empty sounds crazy.  Continue reading

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Good Vibrations~I’m not talking about the song

I like to pretend.  Let’s pretend someone asked me “what is the most important thing to know when it comes to understanding the Law of Attraction?”  My answer would be two words, separated by a slash: Feelings/Vibration.  The most important thing to know when it comes to understanding the wonderfully simple (so simple, many don’t believe it) Law of Attraction (LOA), is the one thing that truly matters, and that is how you are FEELING. Continue reading

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It’s a Conspiracy Theory!

When we hear the term “conspiracy theory” we probably conjure up a picture of someone (usually the bad guys) plotting against us.  So here’s a conspiracy theory, which many (including moi) believe is a fact, which summons a different picture:
The Universe is conspiring to help you!

Think of the possibilities!  The Universe, God, Infinite Intelligence, this Higher Power, whatever you choose to call it, is conspiring to help YOU.  Now even if you don’t fully believe it, just consider it.  What if all this Law of Attraction stuff is true?  What if we really do become what we think about, as Earl Nightingale suggested?

As I see it, we have absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain~and enjoy and celebrate and appreciate.  There is no downside risk!  If you’d like to test this theory, here’s my suggestion:
1. Decide what you want
2. Think about having it more than you think about not having it
3. Keep telling yourself “The Universe is conspiring to help me”
4. Pay attention, look for evidence, notice what you notice.

Life is meant to be fun and dynamic and easy…so easy.  That doesn’t mean lazy, it means uncomplicated.  Whatever your goals, whatever your dreams, whatever your challenges or obstacles…Take it EASY today!  Remember…

THE UNIVERSE IS CONSPIRING TO HELP YOU

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It’s a Trick Question

I really like trick questions, because they require that I stop and think before answering. So here’s one for you: Is the room you’re currently in big or small?  If you answered either big or small or even pretty big or pretty small I would have to hit the proverbial WRONG buzzer.  The correct answer is “I can only answer that question by comparing the room to something else.”  Right? Continue reading

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We Don’t Need to Know HOW

It’s true, no kidding! We do not need to know HOW we’re going to achieve something we truly want. Now I fully realize how crazy that sounds, yet I assure you, it is the absolute opposite of crazy. Continue reading

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Well, What Did You Expect?

So much of what happens to us is influenced by our expectations.  For instance, when I go to the grocery store or the mall, I get the absolute best parking spot in the lot.  When I go to get my hair cut, the primo spot, right in front of the salon, opens up just as I’m ready to pull in.  When this happens I feel grateful (and a little giddy), because it’s such a great example of the Continue reading

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The Law of Attraction Loves Facebook

One of the things I do as a coach (maybe the only thing…hmmmmmmm…) is to help people remain focused on what they want. We work hard to clearly define our goals and then we work hard at creating that picture in our minds. The picture is key. Once you have a clearly defined picture, your responsibility is to Continue reading

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